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Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director and Lecturer at Smith College, where she teaches Women's Sexuality. She has a PhD in health behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University, and a master's degree in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. She is the New York Times bestselling author of Come As You Are and The Come As You Are Workbook as well as three guides for Ian Kerner's GoodInBed.com, including the Guide to Female Orgasm, and her own blog, The Dirty Normal.
An essential exploration of why and how women's sexuality works--based on groundbreaking research and brain science--that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.
Researchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a "pink pill" for women to function like Viagra does for men. So where is it? Well, for reasons this book makes crystal clear, that pill will never be the answer--but as a result of the research that's gone into it, scientists in the last few years have learned more about how women's sexuality works than we ever thought possible, and Come as You Are explains it all.
The first lesson in this essential, transformative book by Dr. Emily Nagoski is that every woman has her own unique sexuality, like a fingerprint, and that women vary more than men in our anatomy, our sexual response mechanisms, and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world. So we never need to judge ourselves based on others' experiences. Because women vary, and that's normal.
Second lesson: sex happens in a context. And all the complications of everyday life influence the context surrounding a woman's arousal, desire, and orgasm.
Cutting-edge research across multiple disciplines tells us that the most important factor for women in creating and sustaining a fulfilling sex life, is not what you do in bed or how you do it, but how you feel about it. Which means that stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman's sexual wellbeing; they are central to it. Once you understand these factors, and how to influence them, you can create for yourself better sex and more profound pleasure than you ever thought possible.
And Emily Nagoski can prove it.
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评分##路上读书解读: 1.每个女人的生殖器都是独一无二的都是正常的 2.对于性刺激反应因人而异 3.环境安全放松性欲好 4.压力会毁灭性生活 5.要爱护自己的身体,敢于面对自己的不完美 6.生殖器有反应并不等于有欲望 7.同频的性生活好但不必次次强求 8.有多少女性,就有多少种性高潮。 每个人的性行为都在生理和文化上具有独特性。我们需要对自己的性行为特征有所了解,而不能道听途说,尤其是当我们与时尚杂志所传递的信息不同时,更要爱护自己、接受自己,知道自己的身体和欲望都是正常的。
评分 评分 评分##Hey I think I’m asexual (or at least demisexual) and I can’t be more okay with it, even though I love my partner and I probably still masturbate once a month. Thank you :))
评分##It is more than a book about sex written by a sex educator. It makes me want to weep every time the author reiterates “You’re totally normal.” “Don’t criticize or judge yourself. You are not the one to blame.” The book covers a lot related to female well-being, from body shaming to sexual harassment, from body-mind dissonance to self acceptance.
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评分##i find that it is so important for women to learn more about sex and themselves. sex is such a sensitive but yet interesting topic...the most important message from this book is: everyone is normal, your vag looks totally normal! p.277 第六章的重點: .男性性器官的充血程度與主觀感受之間有50%的重疊率,女性則僅有10% 。 .性器官反應和主觀性興奮之所以有差異,是因為與性相關(期望)和具有性吸引力(享受)並非相同的概念 。 以男性而言,多數情況下兩者重疊率偏高;以女性而言,重疊率則多半取決於...
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