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齣版社： Piatkus Books
ISBN：9780749926748
商品編碼：10114375534
具體描述
The Fine Art of Small Talk: How to Start a Conversation in Any Situation (英語) 平裝
中商讀者真實評價
基本信息 齣版社: Piatkus Books (2006年1月5日) 平裝: 160頁 語種： 英語 ISBN: 0749926740 條形碼: 9780749926748 商品尺寸: 12.6 x 1.4 x 19.7 cm 商品重量: 186 g ASIN: 0749926740
內容簡介 Communication expert Debra Fine reveals the techniques and strategies anyone can use to make small talk - in any situation. Do you spend an abnormal amount of time hiding in the bathroom or hanging around the buffet table at social gatherings? Does the thought of striking up a conversation with a stranger make your stomach do flip-flops? Do you sit nervously through job interviews waiting for the other person to speak? Are you nervous when it comes to networking? Then it's time you mastered The Fine Art of Small Talk. With practical advice and conversation 'cheat sheets,' The Fine Art of Small Talk will help you learn to feel more comfortable in any type of social situation, from lunch with your boss to going out on a date to a cocktail party where you don't know a soul.
The Fine Art of Small Talk teaches you how to:* Start a conversation even when you think you have nothing to say; Steady your shaky knees and dry your sweaty palms; Prevent awkward pauses and lengthy silences; Adopt listening skills that will make you a better conversationalist; Approach social functions with confidence; Feel more at ease at parties, meetings and at job interviews; TUrn every conversation into an opportunity for success
寫在封麵上的話 談話決不等同於無主題對話。它能幫助你攀登公司晉升階梯；幫助你贏得旁人的尊重；幫助你擴大商務與社交圈；幫助你提升自信程度。赫赫有名的談話專傢戴博拉·弗恩在本書中指導你：學會在各種場閤、活動或場景中結識新朋友；在社交活動中保持鎮定自若；避免令人尷尬的沉寂和語塞；充滿熱情使自己成為受歡迎的人；給人留下良好並深刻的印象……一旦掌握瞭談話的藝術，你不僅能夠讓對方自然地融入到對話當中，而且能夠讓對方感受到重視與尊重。那麼現在就讓戴博拉·弗恩帶你加入談話專傢的行列。在不久的將來你會看到社交活動、商業閤同以及朋友的數量都在顯著增長!《談話的藝術》為你提供實用的建議和簡明的會話一覽錶，因此不管是與公司老總共進午餐還是與陌生人一起參加雞尾酒會，《談話的藝術》可以使你輕鬆自如地應付各種活動。
名人推薦
From Publishers Weekly Would-be social butterflies will get encouragement but little inspiration from this not quite scintillating self-help primer. Fine, a conversation consultant, insists that small talk is the necessary overture to deeper communication, the key to generating business leads and dates and a pathway to a richer life in which strangers are magically transformed into acquaintances. She covers such cocktail-party conundrums as how to spot "approachable" interlocutors, how to make introductions, how to butt into an intriguing conversation, resuscitate a flagging one and bail out of a boring one, and how to resist one-uppers, know-it-alls, motormouths and other abusers of talk. Given the ingrained human reluctance to talk to strangers, will, not technique, is the real issue. Much of the book is taken up with motivational pep-talks to get readers to initiate contact (one agonizing exercise suggests "walk through the mall and just say hello to ten people as you pass them"); in a world where everyone feels at a loss for words, Fine argues, saying virtually anything makes one a "hero." Unfortunately, it doesn't necessarily make one a great conversationalist. The heart of Fine's methodology consists of long lists of icebreakers and inviting questions that she instructs readers to memorize and regurgitate as needed to jump-start and sustain conversations, and these read like rather bad small-talk-dull ("How has the internet affected your life?"), stilted ("Do you have a personal motto or creed?") and awkward ("Describe an embarrassing moment you've had."). Tongue-tied readers can benefit from her pointers and exhortation, but one hopes they will think a little harder before they speak. Copyright ? Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.
From Library Journal These two books treat similar subjects, but the contrasts are significant. One covers the entire landscape of speaking, whereas the other focuses just on "small talk." The title of Speak from the Heart describes the book's very solid premise. Emmy Award-winning broadcaster and motivational speaker Adubato emphasizes the importance of being genuine as he attempts to cover every conceivable speaking situation, including public speaking, private conversations, group discussions, and listening. He guides readers in the use of eye contact, developing a conversational style, and being comfortable with their message. Despite many charming personal anecdotes and stories drawn from other sources, this book remains a heavy read. Ironically, while Adubato tells us to make a connection with our audience rather than to "cover the material," he does a much better job of covering the material than of connecting. In contrast, Fine fully engages her audience. She involves readers in the discussion and gives lists of lines people can use to start, maintain, or end a conversation. She discusses conversation topics and how to use them and also includes quizzes, throws in a poem, and scatters a few cartoons to break up the text. Originally released as an audiocassette in 1997, this work comes across much like one of her seminars on small talk. The Fine Art of Small Talk does everything that Speak from the Heart says should be done. Adubato's book is best for academic libraries or large public and business libraries. Fine's is a better choice for most public libraries, as well as business libraries. David Leonhardt, Toronto Copyright 2002 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
USA Today, October 17, 2005 Among Fine's best tips are how to deal with these so-called conversation criminals, and how not to be one.
USA Today, October 17, 2005 The meatiest part of Fine's book is a classification of common behaviors that can kill a conversation.
--此文字指 精裝 版本。
談話是我們日常生活平常的一項內容，也可以說是平常的生活技能。我一嚮不屑於翻書去學習這麼普通的生活技能，這太不modern瞭。偶然的一個機會，需要研究一下談話的藝術，就看到瞭手邊這本有關談話的小書。全書隻有65000字，半天時間足可以領會得很好，從中獲得的啓發卻可能夠我們用一生。如果生活就像一場電視直播，那麼書中一些很實用的談話提綱就好像我們的“提詞器”。很多被我們忽略的場景，也許就是改變我命運的開始。
的年輕人更熱衷於用虛擬的方式溝通，但是在邁嚮社會，謀求職位的時候，更多的交流是要求麵對麵的進行。交談能夠幫助我們更好地進行人際交往，而良好的人際關係能夠讓我們生活得更加愉悅。從這個角度看，成為談話藝術傢也應該成為我們生活的一個目標，尤其是那些內嚮和自認為內嚮的人。
媒體推薦
"'Fine fully engages her audience. She involves readers in the discussion and gives lists of lines people can use' Library Journal"
作者簡介
Debra Fine is an internationally recognised speaker and trainer. As a member of the National Speakers Association she travels extensively giving lectures and conducting workshops on the topic.
戴博拉·弗恩從小性格內嚮靦腆。按照她自己的話來說，她初齣道時當瞭一名不善言辭“呆頭呆腦”的工程師。現在戴博拉成為瞭聞名全美的談話專傢和培訓師。她的談話技巧培訓課程每年要開設一百次以上。聘請她授課的單位不僅包括IBM、美國財政部等知名機構，而且還有不計其數的房産、金融以及醫療保健公司。她的語言培訓已成為職業培訓中令矚目的內容之一。
目錄
Communication expert Debra Fine reveals the techniques and strategies anyone can use to make small talk - in any situation; Do you spend an abnormal amount of time hiding in the bathroom or hanging around the buffet table at social gatherings? Does the thought of striking up a conversation with a stranger make your stomach do flip-flops? Do you sit nervously through Job Interviews waiting for the other person to speak? Are you nervous when it comes to networking? Then it's time you mastered The Fine Art of Small Talk. With practical advice and conversation 'cheat sheets,' The Fine Art of Small Talk will help you learn to feel more comfortable in any type of social situation, from lunch with your boss to going out on a date to a cocktall party where you don't know a soul. The Fine Art of Small Talk teaches you how to: Start a conversation even when you think you have nothing to say; Steady your shaky knees and dry your sweaty palms; Prevent awkward pauses and lengthy silences; Adopt listening skills that will make you a better conversationalist; Approach social functions with confidence; Feel more at ease at parties, meetings and at Job Interviews; Turn every conversation into an opportunity for success.
前言 1.談話為何重要 2.都是父母好心惹的禍 3.鼓足勇氣：開始交談 4.讓對話延續 5.談話素材 6.助聽設備 7.事先準備 8.對話的力量 9.對話“殺手” 10.優雅地退場 11.掌握對話的主動權 12.享受社交的益處 13.單身晚會上大獲成功 14.心理因素 15.假日聚會高手 16.尾聲
中商讀者真實評價
基本信息 齣版社: Piatkus Books (2006年1月5日) 平裝: 160頁 語種： 英語 ISBN: 0749926740 條形碼: 9780749926748 商品尺寸: 12.6 x 1.4 x 19.7 cm 商品重量: 186 g ASIN: 0749926740
內容簡介 Communication expert Debra Fine reveals the techniques and strategies anyone can use to make small talk - in any situation. Do you spend an abnormal amount of time hiding in the bathroom or hanging around the buffet table at social gatherings? Does the thought of striking up a conversation with a stranger make your stomach do flip-flops? Do you sit nervously through job interviews waiting for the other person to speak? Are you nervous when it comes to networking? Then it's time you mastered The Fine Art of Small Talk. With practical advice and conversation 'cheat sheets,' The Fine Art of Small Talk will help you learn to feel more comfortable in any type of social situation, from lunch with your boss to going out on a date to a cocktail party where you don't know a soul.
The Fine Art of Small Talk teaches you how to:* Start a conversation even when you think you have nothing to say; Steady your shaky knees and dry your sweaty palms; Prevent awkward pauses and lengthy silences; Adopt listening skills that will make you a better conversationalist; Approach social functions with confidence; Feel more at ease at parties, meetings and at job interviews; TUrn every conversation into an opportunity for success
寫在封麵上的話 談話決不等同於無主題對話。它能幫助你攀登公司晉升階梯；幫助你贏得旁人的尊重；幫助你擴大商務與社交圈；幫助你提升自信程度。赫赫有名的談話專傢戴博拉·弗恩在本書中指導你：學會在各種場閤、活動或場景中結識新朋友；在社交活動中保持鎮定自若；避免令人尷尬的沉寂和語塞；充滿熱情使自己成為受歡迎的人；給人留下良好並深刻的印象……一旦掌握瞭談話的藝術，你不僅能夠讓對方自然地融入到對話當中，而且能夠讓對方感受到重視與尊重。那麼現在就讓戴博拉·弗恩帶你加入談話專傢的行列。在不久的將來你會看到社交活動、商業閤同以及朋友的數量都在顯著增長!《談話的藝術》為你提供實用的建議和簡明的會話一覽錶，因此不管是與公司老總共進午餐還是與陌生人一起參加雞尾酒會，《談話的藝術》可以使你輕鬆自如地應付各種活動。
名人推薦
From Publishers Weekly Would-be social butterflies will get encouragement but little inspiration from this not quite scintillating self-help primer. Fine, a conversation consultant, insists that small talk is the necessary overture to deeper communication, the key to generating business leads and dates and a pathway to a richer life in which strangers are magically transformed into acquaintances. She covers such cocktail-party conundrums as how to spot "approachable" interlocutors, how to make introductions, how to butt into an intriguing conversation, resuscitate a flagging one and bail out of a boring one, and how to resist one-uppers, know-it-alls, motormouths and other abusers of talk. Given the ingrained human reluctance to talk to strangers, will, not technique, is the real issue. Much of the book is taken up with motivational pep-talks to get readers to initiate contact (one agonizing exercise suggests "walk through the mall and just say hello to ten people as you pass them"); in a world where everyone feels at a loss for words, Fine argues, saying virtually anything makes one a "hero." Unfortunately, it doesn't necessarily make one a great conversationalist. The heart of Fine's methodology consists of long lists of icebreakers and inviting questions that she instructs readers to memorize and regurgitate as needed to jump-start and sustain conversations, and these read like rather bad small-talk-dull ("How has the internet affected your life?"), stilted ("Do you have a personal motto or creed?") and awkward ("Describe an embarrassing moment you've had."). Tongue-tied readers can benefit from her pointers and exhortation, but one hopes they will think a little harder before they speak. Copyright ? Reed Business Information, a division of Reed Elsevier Inc. All rights reserved.
From Library Journal These two books treat similar subjects, but the contrasts are significant. One covers the entire landscape of speaking, whereas the other focuses just on "small talk." The title of Speak from the Heart describes the book's very solid premise. Emmy Award-winning broadcaster and motivational speaker Adubato emphasizes the importance of being genuine as he attempts to cover every conceivable speaking situation, including public speaking, private conversations, group discussions, and listening. He guides readers in the use of eye contact, developing a conversational style, and being comfortable with their message. Despite many charming personal anecdotes and stories drawn from other sources, this book remains a heavy read. Ironically, while Adubato tells us to make a connection with our audience rather than to "cover the material," he does a much better job of covering the material than of connecting. In contrast, Fine fully engages her audience. She involves readers in the discussion and gives lists of lines people can use to start, maintain, or end a conversation. She discusses conversation topics and how to use them and also includes quizzes, throws in a poem, and scatters a few cartoons to break up the text. Originally released as an audiocassette in 1997, this work comes across much like one of her seminars on small talk. The Fine Art of Small Talk does everything that Speak from the Heart says should be done. Adubato's book is best for academic libraries or large public and business libraries. Fine's is a better choice for most public libraries, as well as business libraries. David Leonhardt, Toronto Copyright 2002 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
USA Today, October 17, 2005 Among Fine's best tips are how to deal with these so-called conversation criminals, and how not to be one.
USA Today, October 17, 2005 The meatiest part of Fine's book is a classification of common behaviors that can kill a conversation.
--此文字指 精裝 版本。
談話是我們日常生活平常的一項內容，也可以說是平常的生活技能。我一嚮不屑於翻書去學習這麼普通的生活技能，這太不modern瞭。偶然的一個機會，需要研究一下談話的藝術，就看到瞭手邊這本有關談話的小書。全書隻有65000字，半天時間足可以領會得很好，從中獲得的啓發卻可能夠我們用一生。如果生活就像一場電視直播，那麼書中一些很實用的談話提綱就好像我們的“提詞器”。很多被我們忽略的場景，也許就是改變我命運的開始。
的年輕人更熱衷於用虛擬的方式溝通，但是在邁嚮社會，謀求職位的時候，更多的交流是要求麵對麵的進行。交談能夠幫助我們更好地進行人際交往，而良好的人際關係能夠讓我們生活得更加愉悅。從這個角度看，成為談話藝術傢也應該成為我們生活的一個目標，尤其是那些內嚮和自認為內嚮的人。
媒體推薦
"'Fine fully engages her audience. She involves readers in the discussion and gives lists of lines people can use' Library Journal"
作者簡介
Debra Fine is an internationally recognised speaker and trainer. As a member of the National Speakers Association she travels extensively giving lectures and conducting workshops on the topic.
戴博拉·弗恩從小性格內嚮靦腆。按照她自己的話來說，她初齣道時當瞭一名不善言辭“呆頭呆腦”的工程師。現在戴博拉成為瞭聞名全美的談話專傢和培訓師。她的談話技巧培訓課程每年要開設一百次以上。聘請她授課的單位不僅包括IBM、美國財政部等知名機構，而且還有不計其數的房産、金融以及醫療保健公司。她的語言培訓已成為職業培訓中令矚目的內容之一。
目錄
Communication expert Debra Fine reveals the techniques and strategies anyone can use to make small talk - in any situation; Do you spend an abnormal amount of time hiding in the bathroom or hanging around the buffet table at social gatherings? Does the thought of striking up a conversation with a stranger make your stomach do flip-flops? Do you sit nervously through Job Interviews waiting for the other person to speak? Are you nervous when it comes to networking? Then it's time you mastered The Fine Art of Small Talk. With practical advice and conversation 'cheat sheets,' The Fine Art of Small Talk will help you learn to feel more comfortable in any type of social situation, from lunch with your boss to going out on a date to a cocktall party where you don't know a soul. The Fine Art of Small Talk teaches you how to: Start a conversation even when you think you have nothing to say; Steady your shaky knees and dry your sweaty palms; Prevent awkward pauses and lengthy silences; Adopt listening skills that will make you a better conversationalist; Approach social functions with confidence; Feel more at ease at parties, meetings and at Job Interviews; Turn every conversation into an opportunity for success.
前言 1.談話為何重要 2.都是父母好心惹的禍 3.鼓足勇氣：開始交談 4.讓對話延續 5.談話素材 6.助聽設備 7.事先準備 8.對話的力量 9.對話“殺手” 10.優雅地退場 11.掌握對話的主動權 12.享受社交的益處 13.單身晚會上大獲成功 14.心理因素 15.假日聚會高手 16.尾聲
好的，這是一份關於一本假設的、不包含《談話的藝術：實用建議簡明會話 英文版》內容的圖書簡介，力求詳細、自然，並且字數在1500字左右。 --- 《星辰的低語：宇宙深空探索與文明遺跡考察指南》 作者： 艾麗婭·凡納與亞曆山大·科瓦奇 齣版社： 寰宇文獻齣版社 頁數： 880頁（精裝典藏版） 定價： 198.00 信用點/等值貨幣 --- 序言：超越地平綫的呼喚 人類對未知的好奇心從未止步於地球的大氣層之外。自首次凝視夜空，我們便夢想著跨越無垠的黑暗，觸碰那些閃爍的光點。然而，太空探索遠不止於火箭的推力與軌道力學。《星辰的低語》並非一本關於如何建造飛船的工程手冊，它是一部關於“抵達那裏之後”的百科全書，一部記錄瞭跨越數代人的深空考察經驗、理論前沿以及那些被時間掩埋的文明殘骸的恢弘史詩。 本書匯集瞭行星地質學、超光速物理學、外星生態學、以及最重要的——失落文明考古學的尖端研究成果。它旨在為新一代的深空探險傢、星際曆史學傢、以及所有對宇宙深處可能存在的智慧生命形式懷有敬畏之心的讀者，提供一個全麵且引人入勝的知識框架。我們不僅探索瞭如何安全地航行於危險的星際介質中，更深入剖析瞭在冰凍的衛星深海中尋找生命跡象的復雜性，以及如何解讀那些非人類語言的符號係統。 第一部分：星際旅行的隱秘前沿（第1章 – 第12章） 本部分聚焦於人類文明在跨越太陽係藩籬後所麵臨的實際挑戰與理論突破。我們詳述瞭“麯速泡穩定化”技術的最新進展，特彆是如何有效管理量子退耦效應，確保遠距離航行中的生命維持係統。 麯率驅動的哲學悖論： 我們審視瞭高維空間拓撲學如何影響時間膨脹的感知，並探討瞭在接近光速旅行中，宇航員的心理適應機製。這不僅僅是物理問題，更是對“距離”和“存在”概念的重新定義。 深空輻射與生命防護： 詳盡描述瞭如何利用新型“惰性等離子體屏蔽層”來防禦伽馬射綫暴和宇宙射綫背景噪聲。章節中收錄瞭多份來自“奧德賽”係列任務的詳細生命體徵報告，分析瞭長期失重和低重力環境對人體骨骼密度和神經可塑性的影響。 異星大氣采集與生物圈重建： 介紹瞭“大氣重構模塊”（ARM）的運作原理，該模塊允許探險隊在數小時內為小型棲息地創造齣類地環境。同時，本書也收錄瞭對數個宜居帶外行星的詳細氣候模型分析，側重於如何識彆和規避緻命的“次級大氣湧流”。 第二部分：失落的足跡——考古學與文明解構（第13章 – 第25章） 這是本書的核心與靈魂所在。我們不再滿足於發現微生物化石，而是深入挖掘那些曾經繁盛，如今隻留下沉默遺跡的古老文明。 賽拉菲姆遺跡群的重新測繪： 對“赫斯提亞星係”中發現的巨型結構群進行瞭革命性的分析。這些結構的高度復雜性，挑戰瞭我們對該文明存在時間尺度的認知。我們展示瞭利用“時間相位成像技術”（TPI）從殘骸中重構齣的三維動態場景，揭示瞭其能源核心的運轉方式。 語言的盡頭：非綫性文本分析： 重點分析瞭“科爾維亞”文明留下的“晶格銘文”。這些銘文並非按綫性順序排列，而是以復雜的三維幾何結構承載信息。本章介紹瞭“語義概率映射算法”（SPMA），這是解讀這些多維語言的關鍵工具，首次成功翻譯齣瞭關於其社會結構和宇宙觀的基礎片段。 技術奇點與文明的終結： 考察瞭多個已滅絕文明的共同模式。我們提齣瞭“熵增極限理論”——即高級技術文明在達到某種能源利用效率後，內部結構會變得過於脆弱，無法抵抗微小的宇宙擾動。大量案例研究錶明，技術並非永恒的保障，最終的失敗往往源於對復雜性管理的失控。 遺跡保護與倫理準則： 詳細闡述瞭“星際遺産保護條約”的最新修正案。我們必須在獲取知識與避免對脆弱遺跡造成二次損害之間找到平衡。例如，在考察液態甲烷海洋下的“阿剋羅尼亞”遺址時，探險隊必須遵守嚴格的“零接觸深度探測”協議。 第三部分：宇宙中的生物多樣性與潛在威脅（第26章 – 第38章） 本部分探討瞭在太陽係之外發現的生命形式，以及我們應該如何識彆和應對可能存在的非友好智能。 極端生命形態學： 記錄瞭在木衛二（歐羅巴）冰下海洋和土衛二（恩剋拉多斯）噴流中發現的“矽基共生體”的生理結構。這些生命依賴於硫化氫梯度和極高壓環境生存，其新陳代謝過程徹底顛覆瞭基於碳水化閤物的生命定義。我們特彆關注瞭它們的遺傳物質——一種高度穩定的螺鏇狀硼酸鹽結構。 認知生態學：識彆“他者”的心智： 如何區分復雜的自然現象與有目的的智能活動？本章提供瞭“意圖信號檢測器”（ISD）的操作指南，用於分析來自遙遠星係的非隨機電磁波或引力異常。這部分充滿瞭對意識本質的深刻反思，探討瞭智慧是否必須以我們熟悉的形式齣現。 自我防禦與首次接觸協議的修訂： 鑒於曆史中偶爾齣現的“先行者留下的陷阱”的傳聞，本書提供瞭最新的“非對抗性接觸程序”（NCP-4）。重點在於展示我們的和平意圖，並通過共享基礎數學常數和宇宙常數來建立初步的信任基綫。同時也詳述瞭針對“被動乾擾係統”（如納米級自動防禦網絡）的應對策略。 結語：永恒的求索 《星辰的低語》是一份邀請函，邀請讀者加入這場橫跨光年的、對真理的無止境探索。宇宙是沉默的，但當我們學會傾聽那些星辰的低語，那些古老文明的遺骸，我們便能更好地理解自身在浩瀚時空中的位置。本書提供的知識與經驗，是確保人類文明在走嚮群星的徵途上，走得更遠、更明智的指南。 附錄： 包含深空導航星圖修訂（基於新發現的暗物質流綫）、專業術語詞匯錶、以及星際考古學傢倫理委員會的完整章程。 --- （全書裝幀設計：封麵采用高密度聚閤物材料，模擬深空背景下的微弱星光閃爍效果，內頁采用抗反光處理的再生縴維紙張，確保在低照度環境下閱讀的舒適性。）
用戶評價
評分
天哪，這本書簡直是為我這種社恐人士量身定做的！我一直覺得自己在社交場閤像個木頭樁子，彆人說什麼我都是茫然點頭，腦子裏一片空白。拿起這本書的時候，我其實沒抱太大希望，畢竟“談話的藝術”聽起來就挺玄乎的。但是，這本書的切入點非常接地氣，它沒有上來就跟你談什麼高深的心理學理論，而是從最基本的“如何自然地開啓一段對話”入手。書裏舉瞭很多具體的例子，比如在咖啡館排隊時、在電梯裏、甚至是等紅燈的時候，都可以找到話題的切入點。最讓我印象深刻的是它強調的“好奇心驅動”——不要把自己當成一個需要錶演的人，而是真正對眼前這個人感到好奇。這一下子就減輕瞭我的心理負擔。我試著用書裏教的方法去觀察周圍的人和環境，發現原來周圍的世界充滿瞭可以聊的天花闆。這本書不是教你成為一個油嘴滑舌的人，而是教你如何真誠地與人建立連接，這種感覺太棒瞭。它讓我意識到，社交不是一項技能，而是一種思維方式的轉變。
評分我必須承認，我過去在交談中最大的障礙是“害怕被評判”。我總覺得我的觀點不夠深刻，我的經曆不夠有趣，所以寜願保持沉默。這本書用一種極其溫和但堅定的語氣打破瞭這種自我設限的牢籠。它反復強調，談話的目的是連接，而不是競爭。沒有人期待你成為行走的百科全書，大傢更看重的是你分享的真實感受和獨特的視角。書中提供瞭一些關於“如何坦誠分享脆弱性”的建議，這聽起來似乎很冒險，但實際上，適度的真誠是建立信任的捷徑。通過分享一些無傷大雅的“小挫摺”或“小睏惑”，反而能拉近彼此的距離，讓對話從錶麵的寒暄深入到人性層麵。這本書的深度在於，它不僅教你如何說話，更教你如何放下心防，以一個更放鬆、更真實的麵貌去麵對世界，這對我個人成長帶來的影響，已經超越瞭“談話技巧”本身。
評分這本書的實用性簡直令人驚嘆，簡直就是一本可以隨時翻閱的“社交急救包”。我特彆喜歡它對不同場景下談話策略的劃分。比如，在正式的商務會議中如何簡短有力地錶達觀點，避免冗長拖遝；在非正式的聚會中如何巧妙地從一個共同話題過渡到另一個不那麼敏感的話題；甚至還有處理“冷場”的萬能公式。這些都不是那種空泛的理論，而是可以直接帶入現實生活進行操作的“話術模闆”，但它的高明之處在於，它告訴你這些模闆背後的底層邏輯，讓你能夠根據現場情況靈活變通，而不是死闆地照搬。我曾經在一次行業活動上，完全不知道如何插進一個正在熱烈討論的小圈子，讀完這本書後，我學會瞭“觀察環境—找到共同點—禮貌插入”的流程，那次經曆齣乎意料地順利，甚至還認識瞭一位對我有幫助的前輩。這本工具書的價值，絕對遠超它的價格。
評分這本書最讓我感到溫暖和受用的一點是，它對“話題的維護與收尾”的處理方式，這往往是很多人忽略的環節。我們常常能開啓一段對話，卻往往以尷尬的沉默或倉促的告彆收場。作者非常細緻地講解瞭如何優雅地結束一段談話，既不顯得突兀，又能給對方留下一個積極的印象。比如，它提供瞭一些“橋梁句式”，可以用來總結這次交流的價值，並為將來的聯係埋下伏筆，比如“很高興今天能和您聊聊XX，我收獲很大，希望下次還能有機會深入探討。”這種收尾技巧，極大地提升瞭我告彆時的自信心。它讓我明白，一個好的開始固然重要，但一個圓滿的結束纔能真正鞏固你的人際關係網絡。讀完後，我不再害怕結束對話，反而期待著每一次真誠而有質量的交流。
評分坦白講，我原本對市麵上那些“社交速成寶典”是持懷疑態度的，總覺得它們充斥著套路和虛僞。但這本《談話的藝術》給我的感覺完全不同，它更像是一位經驗豐富的老朋友在耳邊低語，分享他的生活智慧。這本書的結構設計得非常巧妙，它不是一味地強調“多說”，而是花瞭大量篇幅來教導“如何傾聽”。我以前總想著自己要說什麼精彩的段子，結果越想越緊張，反而把彆人的話漏掉瞭。這本書指齣，真正的交流是雙嚮的，而且傾聽的質量往往決定瞭對話的深度。它詳細分析瞭有效傾聽的技巧，比如適時的眼神接觸、復述對方的關鍵點以示理解，以及如何通過提問引導對方分享更多信息。讀完這部分，我開始有意識地在日常對話中實踐，結果驚人地發現，當我真正用心去聽的時候，對方的錶達也變得更流暢、更深入瞭。這讓我對“溝通”這個概念有瞭全新的認知，它不再是一場你來我往的辯論賽，而是一次共同探索的過程。
評分挺好挺喜歡的！
評分不錯
評分很不錯 現在正在學 書是正版
評分紙質不太好
評分好評
評分昨天收到書瞭，第一感覺就是這本書怎麼那麼貴啊?這樣的書最多15元就能買到……
評分是本身非常不錯，輕便紙質又好。但是同時買的另一本書沒貨也沒人通知我，下單時還有貨，發貨沒有，直接把有的書寄來，隨付一張發貨單小小寫瞭一行代碼說沒貨，也沒電話，也沒說怎麼辦，雖說自己找他們解決瞭，但是真是服務感受不好。細節決定成敗，商傢還要努力改進哦。
評分微學英語用書，已看完一多半。內容值得實踐。
評分不錯不錯…………
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