The Road Less Traveled and Beyond: Spiritual Growth in an Age of Anxiety (英语) 平装
M. Scott Peck (作者)
基本信息
作者:M. Scott Peck
出版社: Touchstone; Reprint (1998年1月2日)
外文书名: 世上本没有路 - 心灵地图
平装: 324页
语种:英语
ISBN: 0684835614
条形码: 9780684835617
商品尺寸: 14 x 1.8 x 21.4 cm
商品重量: 295 g
ASIN: 0684835614
编辑推荐
The potential danger in this book's title is the assumption that Peck is rehashing the same material he wrote in The Road Less Traveled. Thankfully, this isn't so. Although he touches upon the same themes that appear in most everything he writes--narcissism vs. self-love and good vs. evil--Peck is clearly speaking to the crucial dilemmas of the 1990s, such as overly simplistic thinking, institutionalized racism and sexism, as well as the media's despairing vision. Now that Peck has reached the maturity of 60, his narrative is less know-it-all than in the days of yore. Yet, ironically, his decades of research, writing, and human service give him more authority than ever.
作者简介
M. Scott Peck, M.D., is a psychiatrist and bestselling author of many books. Educated at Harvard (B.A.) and Case Western Reserve (M.D.), Dr. Peck served in administrative posts in the government and was a psychiatrist in private practice. Recently, he has devoted much of his time and financial resources to the work of the Foundation for Community Encouragement, a nonprofit organization that he and his wife, Lily, helped found in 1984. He lives in northern Connecticut.
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From the Publisher
The Road Less Traveled and Beyond is the culmination of a lifetime of Dr. M. Scott Peck's counseling, lecturing, and writing, and the conclusion of the "Road" trilogy. In it, we are led to a deeper awareness of how to live rich, fulfilling lives in a world fraught with stress and anxiety.
With the rare combination of profound psychological insight and deep spirituality that has already spoken to millions of readers, Dr. Peck talks about decision making and the choices we make every day in business and at home, and the ethical choices that may affect the very survival of humankind.
We learn the difference between good and evil, to overcome narcissism, to love and be loved, to live with paradox, to accept the consequences of our actions all through life, and to come to terms with dying and death.
Dr. Peck is a guide on the adventure that is life, learning, and spiritual growth—life's greatest adventure. Building in depth and power from the very first chapter to its lyrical and poetic conclusion, The Road Less Traveled and Beyond is an adventure in itself.
我一直以为自己是个内心强大的人,直到我翻开这本书的第三部分,才发现自己其实构建了太多自欺欺人的心理防御。作者对于“爱”的解读颠覆了我以往对浪漫爱情的幻想,他指出真正的爱不是依恋,不是索取,而是一种主动的奉献和承诺,需要极大的自律和勇气去实践。这种论述非常深刻,它揭示了许多“爱”的表象下隐藏着的自私和恐惧。阅读过程就像进行了一次深度的心理挖掘,把我那些潜意识里不愿承认的弱点都暴露了出来。我尤其欣赏作者对于“放下过去”的见解,他强调我们不能将过去的创伤当作成年人拒绝成长的借口,而是要积极地承担起现在的自己。读完这本书,我感到了一种被彻底“扒光”的清醒,虽然过程有点痛苦,但那种直面真相后的轻松感是任何其他书籍都无法给予的。
评分这本书的语言风格对我来说,起初有些“硬”,它不像流行的自我帮助书籍那样平易近人,而是充满了哲学思辨和心理学名词。但这恰恰是它宝贵的地方。它没有迎合读者的惰性,而是要求你投入精力去理解那些复杂而精妙的理论模型,比如关于“神经症”和“人际冲突”的分析。我花了很长时间才消化完关于“家庭动力学”的那几章,但一旦理解了,那种豁然开朗的感觉是无与伦比的。它不仅教会了我如何更好地与伴侣和家人沟通,更重要的是,它让我明白了自己童年经历是如何不自觉地影响我今天的行为模式的。它不是给你一个快速修复的补丁,而是一个结构性的思维工具,让你能够从根本上重新设计自己处理世界的方式。
评分我向很多朋友推荐过这本书,但很少有人能坚持读完,我想这正是它价值所在——它筛选出了那些真正渴望改变,并愿意为之付出努力的人。它没有华丽的辞藻来粉饰人生的艰难,相反,它毫不留情地揭示了成长的代价。在我看来,它最核心的贡献在于,它将“幸福”这个模糊的概念,具象化为一系列需要我们主动去解决的“问题”。生活不是为了快乐而存在的,而是为了解决问题而存在的,而解决问题的能力本身,就是一种深刻的满足感。这种务实的态度,彻底改变了我对“成功”和“失败”的定义。它让我明白,真正重要的不是外界的掌声,而是你有没有勇气每天早晨醒来,面对那个真实的、正在努力的自己。
评分说实话,这本书的阅读体验是断断续续的,但每一次重拾,都会有新的领悟。它更像是一本工具书,一本指导你去“生活”的指南,而不是一本用来消遣的小说。我发现自己常常读完一页,就要停下来,走到窗边,对着镜子审视自己几分钟。它迫使你进行内省,去检验你日常的反应是否是基于成熟的判断,还是基于老旧的、未被处理的情绪残余。它对“责任”的定义极其严肃——你应对自己人生的唯一负责人,没有任何外部因素可以成为你停滞不前的借口。这种毫不留情的坦诚,让我这个习惯性找借口的人感到了前所未有的压力,但这种压力最终转化成了前进的动力。它不提供捷径,只提供方向。
评分这本书真是一剂强心针,尤其是在我感觉生活一团糟的时候。它不像那些心灵鸡汤那样空泛地喊口号,而是非常务实地剖析了人生的真相——成长必然伴随着痛苦和责任。我记得有一段话让我印象深刻,它谈到了“延迟满足”的重要性,说人生的很多困境都源于我们逃避那些必要的痛苦。读完之后,我开始反思自己过去那些选择逃避的时刻,那些为了眼前的安逸而牺牲了长期成长的决定。作者的论述非常有逻辑性,他不会指责你软弱,而是像一个经验丰富的朋友,带着理解和温和的坚定,引导你去直面那些让你不舒服但又必须面对的问题。它不是一本读完就能立刻解决所有问题的书,但它提供了一种看待问题的全新视角,让我明白了,想拥有更好的人生,就必须愿意去承担更重的责任,付出更深的努力。这种深刻的洞察力,让我在处理人际关系和自我认知上都有了质的飞跃。
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