The Road Less Traveled and Beyond: Spiritual Growth in an Age of Anxiety (英語) 平裝
M. Scott Peck (作者)
基本信息
作者:M. Scott Peck
齣版社: Touchstone; Reprint (1998年1月2日)
外文書名: 世上本沒有路 - 心靈地圖
平裝: 324頁
語種:英語
ISBN: 0684835614
條形碼: 9780684835617
商品尺寸: 14 x 1.8 x 21.4 cm
商品重量: 295 g
ASIN: 0684835614
編輯推薦
The potential danger in this book's title is the assumption that Peck is rehashing the same material he wrote in The Road Less Traveled. Thankfully, this isn't so. Although he touches upon the same themes that appear in most everything he writes--narcissism vs. self-love and good vs. evil--Peck is clearly speaking to the crucial dilemmas of the 1990s, such as overly simplistic thinking, institutionalized racism and sexism, as well as the media's despairing vision. Now that Peck has reached the maturity of 60, his narrative is less know-it-all than in the days of yore. Yet, ironically, his decades of research, writing, and human service give him more authority than ever.
作者簡介
M. Scott Peck, M.D., is a psychiatrist and bestselling author of many books. Educated at Harvard (B.A.) and Case Western Reserve (M.D.), Dr. Peck served in administrative posts in the government and was a psychiatrist in private practice. Recently, he has devoted much of his time and financial resources to the work of the Foundation for Community Encouragement, a nonprofit organization that he and his wife, Lily, helped found in 1984. He lives in northern Connecticut.
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From the Publisher
The Road Less Traveled and Beyond is the culmination of a lifetime of Dr. M. Scott Peck's counseling, lecturing, and writing, and the conclusion of the "Road" trilogy. In it, we are led to a deeper awareness of how to live rich, fulfilling lives in a world fraught with stress and anxiety.
With the rare combination of profound psychological insight and deep spirituality that has already spoken to millions of readers, Dr. Peck talks about decision making and the choices we make every day in business and at home, and the ethical choices that may affect the very survival of humankind.
We learn the difference between good and evil, to overcome narcissism, to love and be loved, to live with paradox, to accept the consequences of our actions all through life, and to come to terms with dying and death.
Dr. Peck is a guide on the adventure that is life, learning, and spiritual growth—life's greatest adventure. Building in depth and power from the very first chapter to its lyrical and poetic conclusion, The Road Less Traveled and Beyond is an adventure in itself.
這本書的語言風格對我來說,起初有些“硬”,它不像流行的自我幫助書籍那樣平易近人,而是充滿瞭哲學思辨和心理學名詞。但這恰恰是它寶貴的地方。它沒有迎閤讀者的惰性,而是要求你投入精力去理解那些復雜而精妙的理論模型,比如關於“神經癥”和“人際衝突”的分析。我花瞭很長時間纔消化完關於“傢庭動力學”的那幾章,但一旦理解瞭,那種豁然開朗的感覺是無與倫比的。它不僅教會瞭我如何更好地與伴侶和傢人溝通,更重要的是,它讓我明白瞭自己童年經曆是如何不自覺地影響我今天的行為模式的。它不是給你一個快速修復的補丁,而是一個結構性的思維工具,讓你能夠從根本上重新設計自己處理世界的方式。
評分說實話,這本書的閱讀體驗是斷斷續續的,但每一次重拾,都會有新的領悟。它更像是一本工具書,一本指導你去“生活”的指南,而不是一本用來消遣的小說。我發現自己常常讀完一頁,就要停下來,走到窗邊,對著鏡子審視自己幾分鍾。它迫使你進行內省,去檢驗你日常的反應是否是基於成熟的判斷,還是基於老舊的、未被處理的情緒殘餘。它對“責任”的定義極其嚴肅——你應對自己人生的唯一負責人,沒有任何外部因素可以成為你停滯不前的藉口。這種毫不留情的坦誠,讓我這個習慣性找藉口的人感到瞭前所未有的壓力,但這種壓力最終轉化成瞭前進的動力。它不提供捷徑,隻提供方嚮。
評分這本書真是一劑強心針,尤其是在我感覺生活一團糟的時候。它不像那些心靈雞湯那樣空泛地喊口號,而是非常務實地剖析瞭人生的真相——成長必然伴隨著痛苦和責任。我記得有一段話讓我印象深刻,它談到瞭“延遲滿足”的重要性,說人生的很多睏境都源於我們逃避那些必要的痛苦。讀完之後,我開始反思自己過去那些選擇逃避的時刻,那些為瞭眼前的安逸而犧牲瞭長期成長的決定。作者的論述非常有邏輯性,他不會指責你軟弱,而是像一個經驗豐富的朋友,帶著理解和溫和的堅定,引導你去直麵那些讓你不舒服但又必須麵對的問題。它不是一本讀完就能立刻解決所有問題的書,但它提供瞭一種看待問題的全新視角,讓我明白瞭,想擁有更好的人生,就必須願意去承擔更重的責任,付齣更深的努力。這種深刻的洞察力,讓我在處理人際關係和自我認知上都有瞭質的飛躍。
評分我一直以為自己是個內心強大的人,直到我翻開這本書的第三部分,纔發現自己其實構建瞭太多自欺欺人的心理防禦。作者對於“愛”的解讀顛覆瞭我以往對浪漫愛情的幻想,他指齣真正的愛不是依戀,不是索取,而是一種主動的奉獻和承諾,需要極大的自律和勇氣去實踐。這種論述非常深刻,它揭示瞭許多“愛”的錶象下隱藏著的自私和恐懼。閱讀過程就像進行瞭一次深度的心理挖掘,把我那些潛意識裏不願承認的弱點都暴露瞭齣來。我尤其欣賞作者對於“放下過去”的見解,他強調我們不能將過去的創傷當作成年人拒絕成長的藉口,而是要積極地承擔起現在的自己。讀完這本書,我感到瞭一種被徹底“扒光”的清醒,雖然過程有點痛苦,但那種直麵真相後的輕鬆感是任何其他書籍都無法給予的。
評分我嚮很多朋友推薦過這本書,但很少有人能堅持讀完,我想這正是它價值所在——它篩選齣瞭那些真正渴望改變,並願意為之付齣努力的人。它沒有華麗的辭藻來粉飾人生的艱難,相反,它毫不留情地揭示瞭成長的代價。在我看來,它最核心的貢獻在於,它將“幸福”這個模糊的概念,具象化為一係列需要我們主動去解決的“問題”。生活不是為瞭快樂而存在的,而是為瞭解決問題而存在的,而解決問題的能力本身,就是一種深刻的滿足感。這種務實的態度,徹底改變瞭我對“成功”和“失敗”的定義。它讓我明白,真正重要的不是外界的掌聲,而是你有沒有勇氣每天早晨醒來,麵對那個真實的、正在努力的自己。
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